Care For Mum – And Peace of Mind for Sarah
Missed part one and two, find them here
Sarah had never imagined she’d become a carer for her mum. Not in the way she had. But here she was—months into a journey that had started with small worries and snowballed into sleepless nights, endless to-do lists, and a growing fear that something would slip through the cracks.
But things had changed.
With help from Care in Kent, Sarah’s mum now receives the support she needs, and Sarah has found something she never expected—peace of mind.
The Turning Point
If you’ve been following Sarah’s journey, you’ll know she reached her limit in Part 2. Exhausted and emotional, she finally made the call to Care in Kent after weeks of indecision.
It wasn’t easy admitting she needed help. Like so many adult children, Sarah had felt it was her duty to care for mum on her own. But the reality was, her life was suffering—her relationship, her work, her health. Most importantly, she’d started to lose the connection with her mum. Every visit had become a chore list.
When the team at Care in Kent came in, they didn’t just tick boxes—they listened. They assessed her mum’s needs, but they also listened to Sarah. They helped her understand that this wasn’t failure. It was love, packaged differently.
Rebuilding the Bond
Sarah still visits her mum regularly, but now their time together is filled with conversation, laughter, and shared memories. The care team handles the practical things: medication, meals, gentle cleaning, and personal care. This has allowed Sarah to step back from the role of carer and return to being what her mum really needs—her daughter.
And her mum? She’s thriving. Having consistent, friendly faces she trusts has improved her mood and confidence. She’s eating well, feeling secure, and even looking forward to the carer visits—something Sarah never imagined she’d say.
The guilt has lifted. The overwhelm is gone. In its place is calm, routine, and reassurance.
Flexible Support That Grows With Her Mum
One thing Sarah really values is how flexible the support is. As her mum’s needs change, the care package adapts. Care in Kent keeps in regular contact, checking in with Sarah and her mum to make sure everything still feels right.
And if things do change—more help is just a conversation away. Whether it’s a temporary increase after a hospital stay or longer-term support as her mum’s mobility declines, Sarah now knows she’s not facing it alone.
It’s More Than Just Practical Care
What stood out most to Sarah wasn’t just the professionalism—it was the kindness. Her mum isn’t just a task list to Care in Kent. She’s a person. One who’s lived a life, raised a family, and deserves to be treated with dignity and warmth.
That human connection has made all the difference.
Looking Back – And Forward
Reflecting on the last year, Sarah says she wishes she’d acted sooner. But like many people in her situation, she waited—because she wasn’t sure what help would look like. Because she didn’t want to upset her mum. Because she thought she should be able to do it all.
If you’re reading this and feeling the same—don’t wait.
You don’t have to do it all. And neither does your loved one. The right kind of help doesn’t take away your role as family—it frees you up to be present, without being overwhelmed.
Final Thoughts: You’re Not Alone
Sarah’s story is one we hear again and again. A daughter or son trying their best, juggling it all, running themselves into the ground—until something gives.
But it doesn’t have to reach breaking point.
If you’re worried about your mum or dad, or feeling stretched too thin, let’s talk. We’ll work with you to create a plan that fits around your loved one—and your life.
Care in Kent is here to help.
Could your family benefit from care for mum or dad?
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